"Navigating a journey of finding a life partner" with Mwansa Kabanda Ray.

"Marriage Minded Singles will take you on a wonderful journey of self discovery, prepare you for a healthy relationship and guide you in finding your life-long spouse.
"Bishop Stephen Ray"



Getting out of singleness starts with you—by letting go of false beliefs about yourself and embracing a marriage mindset.
Being marriage-minded is not desperation; it’s a mentality that prepares you for marriage and positions you so you don't miss your time of marital settlement.
Marriage requires preparation before you enter into it. You need to work on yourself spiritually, physically, emotionally, socially, and financially. You must also know what you're searching for in order to recognize it when you find it.
So ask yourself:
-What am I searching for?
-What do I really want?
-Am I ready for marriage?
-Am I emotionally, spiritually, and financially stable enough to handle and sustain a relationship that leads to marriage?
-Why do I want to get married?
-Who do I want to marry?
-What kind of personality, background, race, or values matter to me?
-From which circle of life should they come?
-What age range am I considering? --Does age truly matter in marriage?
-When should I marry?
-How should I go about it?
-Should I involve my pastor, my parents, or seek God's guidance?
-At what point should I involve others and God?
-Is this person truly right for me?
-Is God involved in my decision?
-Am I being realistic?
Marriage-Minded Singles offers answers to these questions and practical advice to help you navigate the journey of finding the right partner—where to look, how to prepare, and what to expect.
This book is a road map for anyone who isn't just looking for a partner, but is ready to build a future with someone who shares their values, dreams, and commitment to lasting love.
The time to embrace this beautiful chapter in your life is now. You're not merely waiting for someone to come into your life—you’re preparing yourself to become the kind of partner who can offer a healthy, loving, and lasting marriage.
It’s about intentionality. It’s about purpose. It’s about positioning yourself for the love story that will change everything.
Let this book guide you as you take the next steps on your exciting journey toward a marriage that lasts a lifetime.
You don't marry when the time is right you marry when the person is right.
Getting out of singleness starts with you doing away with your limiting beliefs that you are meant to be alone and embrace a marriage mind set. Having a marriage mindset is not desperation, its a mentality that prepares you for marriage and positions you so that you don't miss your time of marital settlement.
Marriage needs preparation before you get into it. You need to prepare and work on yourself spiritually, physically, emotionally, socially and financially. You need to know what you are searching for in order to find it and have a good social strategy.
IMPORTANT QUESTIONS THAT EVALUATES YOUR READINESS.
What are you searching for? What do you really want? Are you ready for marriage? Are you emotionally, spiritually, and financially stable to handle and sustain a relationship leading to marriage? Why do you want to get married? Who do you want to marry? What personality, what color, what race? From which circle of life? What age do you want? does the age really matter in marriage? When should you marry? How should you go about it? Should you involve your pastor, your parents, or God? At what point should you involve other people and God? Is God involved? Are you realistic? Do not go searching or finding a date when you are not ready for marriage, do not waste anyone's time.
Marriage minded singles offers answers to those questions and practical advice that will help you navigate the journey of finding the life partner. The book provides a road map for anyone who is not just looking for a partner but is ready to build a future with someone who shares their values, dreams, and commitment to lasting love. The time to embrace this beautiful chapter in your life is now. You are not merely waiting for someone to come into your life, you are preparing yourself to become the kind of partner who can offer a healthy, loving, and lasting marriage, It's about intentionality. It's about purpose. It's about positioning yourself for the love story that will change everything while trusting God.

"I am truly grateful for Pastor Mwansa Ray's Marriage Minded Singles. This amazing book offers practical advice on preparing yourself for your life partner. The insights shared are both profound and actionable, guiding singles to not only focus on finding a life partner but on becoming the best version of themselves in the process. Pastor Mwansa’s wisdom and compassionate approach make this book an invaluable resource for anyone on a journey toward a healthy and fulfilling marriage. I highly recommend it to anyone serious about preparing for a future together with a life partner."

Stephen Ray,
Pastor and Martial Arts Master









She is an Author of several other books. She holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Bible Theology with Education. She has served as a pastor under Pentecostal Assemblies of God Zambia, where she pastored churches. Beyond the pulpit, she has also been active in radio ministry. Her passion for coaching young adults on relationships and marriage has touched many lives, guiding them toward God-centered and fulfilling relationships. With her extensive experience in ministry and relationship coaching, she brings profound wisdom and biblical insight to Marriage-Minded Singles, offering guidance to those seeking God’s plan for their future marriage.
Find out more today by purchasing "Marriage Minded Singles".

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